There comes a point in life when you no longer feel like you're chasing something. Not success, not validation, not even happiness. Instead, you wake up one day with a sense of ease - a deep breath that tells you you're in the right place. It's the moment where the pursuit ends, and fulfillment … [Read more...]
Financial Planning for a Mid-Career Sabbatical: Building Confidence for Your Mid-Life Break
In my article from April 2024, Take Mid-Life Long Breaks: Why I Advocate for Two Sabbaticals in Your 40s and 50s, I shared my personal journey of stepping away from work for a sabbatical in my early 40s. That break wasn’t just a pause in my career - it was a pivotal moment that allowed me to … [Read more...]
The Illusion of Idealism: Why Workplaces Aren’t Families and Why That’s OK
This morning, a LinkedIn post referencing a tweet from Adam Grant caught my attention. It talked about how workplaces are better seen as communities and should not be considered your family. Reading through it, and reflecting on the idea, I felt compelled to sit down and write a response. There … [Read more...]
Plant Trees, Not Landmines: The Leadership Choice You Make Every Day
In life, we walk paths without fully considering the impact of each step. And with every decision, we either create smoother journeys for others or leave obstacles behind. This is not just a metaphor for leadership - it’s a reflection of how we shape the spaces around us. Those in positions of … [Read more...]
The Art of Saying Less: How Simplicity Inspires Understanding
There’s a counterintuitive principle that plays out in both life and business: the more you simplify, the more others comprehend. The “simplicity paradox” is not just an observation - it’s a cornerstone of communication, leadership, and problem-solving. In a world driven by complexity, where … [Read more...]
10 Networking Strategies That Worked for an Introvert like Me, and Could Be Equally Useful for Others
Networking can be a daunting task, especially if you're an introvert. And I am as introverted as we come ^_^ The idea of working a room, delivering a rehearsed pitch, or initiating small talk may feel uncomfortable. A lot of this pressure and discomfort around networking comes from the … [Read more...]
Starting with WHY: An Engineer’s View of How to Make Sense of Life
Life, like engineering, is full of complexities. But over time, I’ve learned that the real challenge isn't in solving the problems themselves - it’s in understanding why they exist in the first place. For me, this principle of starting with "why" isn’t just a tool in my professional toolkit as an … [Read more...]
Lighthouses, Not Tugboats: The True Role of Mentors in Building Your Own Path
Mentors are often seen as the guiding lights on our journeys - the wise ones who share their experiences, offer insights, and help us avoid costly mistakes. But mentorship isn’t about receiving a set of ready-made answers or a clear-cut map to success. It’s far more nuanced than that. To truly … [Read more...]
Leadership by Elimination: The Wisdom of Knowing What to Leave Behind
Leadership isn’t always about having the answer; it’s about having the discernment to let go of everything that clearly isn’t the answer. We often associate leadership with bold, visionary choices, the kind that change the course of a company or a team. But just as often, the hallmark of great … [Read more...]
Beyond Strategy: Mastering the Five Dimensions of Real Transformation
When it comes to organizational change, most people think about strategy—those neatly prepared documents brimming with analyses, projections, and roadmaps. But here's the truth: no matter how brilliantly a strategy is designed, it often falls short when faced with the complexities of human nature … [Read more...]