There comes a point in life when you no longer feel like you're chasing something. Not success, not validation, not even happiness. Instead, you wake up one day with a sense of ease - a deep breath that tells you you're in the right place. It's the moment where the pursuit ends, and fulfillment … [Read more...]
The Unraveling: Embracing the End of Idealized Bonds
The belief that friendships last forever is a comforting one, especially in our youth. It gives us a sense of security and connection, something we naturally carry as we grow. When you left your childhood friends behind in India, those bonds felt unbreakable. But what you carried with you was not … [Read more...]
The Joy of Writing: Why I Write and How It Shapes My World
Writing, for me, is not just an act - it's a process of discovery, a way to engage with the thoughts that live deep within and bring them to light. It starts with a quiet impulse, something that’s been gathering for years, lying in wait until the moment feels right. Then, in a sudden rush, words … [Read more...]
Plant Trees, Not Landmines: The Leadership Choice You Make Every Day
In life, we walk paths without fully considering the impact of each step. And with every decision, we either create smoother journeys for others or leave obstacles behind. This is not just a metaphor for leadership - it’s a reflection of how we shape the spaces around us. Those in positions of … [Read more...]
Starting with WHY: An Engineer’s View of How to Make Sense of Life
Life, like engineering, is full of complexities. But over time, I’ve learned that the real challenge isn't in solving the problems themselves - it’s in understanding why they exist in the first place. For me, this principle of starting with "why" isn’t just a tool in my professional toolkit as an … [Read more...]
I Refuse to Be Color Coded: A Non-Partisan Speaking Up
In a world where everything seems divided into boxes, shades, and factions, standing on your own, as a non-partisan, feels like an act of defiance. Today, we live in an era where the expectation is that you should color yourself, label yourself, and declare your loyalty to a side. People ask where … [Read more...]
Honoring a Legend: Reflecting on the Loss and Legacy of Ratan Tata
Ratan Tata is no more. I never met him. He never gave me personal advice. Yet, his impact on my life feels larger than life. As I grieve his passing, I feel compelled to reflect on the legacy of this extraordinary figure - not just to honor his memory but to explore what figures like him mean for us … [Read more...]
In the Noise and the Chaos: Learning to Let Go
The world is full of distractions - some small, some loud - all clamoring for our attention. Life demands our focus, but not all of it. Every day we encounter moments that chip away at us: small infractions, irrelevant disappointments, and unnecessary challenges. We bump into avoidable people, … [Read more...]
The Art of Navigating Disagreement: Embracing Nuance in a Polarized World
We live in a world where someone with conservative political views cannot be seen as an environmentalist - the two are immediately perceived to be in conflict. It’s a stark example of how polarized we’ve become, where everything from our values to our interests is divided into neat, opposing … [Read more...]
The Quiet Power of Water: Harnessing Adaptability for Leadership and Life
Bruce Lee once said, “Be water, my friend,” offering a metaphor that extends far beyond martial arts. In those four simple words lies a profound philosophy for navigating the complexities of leadership, life, and personal growth. To be like water is to embody adaptability, fluidity, and quiet … [Read more...]
Why I Don’t Want to Be Mr. Beast
There’s something magnetic about the wild, frenetic energy of content creators like Mr. Beast. Each video is a spectacle, bigger and bolder than the last, perfectly engineered to capture the ever-shifting tides of online attention. It’s an extraordinary model that works for many - viewers who crave … [Read more...]
The Subtle Power of Detachment: Learning to Move Through Life Without Taking Things Personally
Life, as we know it, is often a delicate dance between self-perception and external stimuli - between how we see ourselves and how the world interacts with us. In a world driven by immediate reactions, perpetual feedback, and constant judgment, there lies an underlying question: why do we take … [Read more...]
The Art of Letting Go: Why Fixating on the Outcome Is the Surest Way to Lose Sight of Success
It’s easy to find ourselves tangled in the web of outcomes. In a world that prizes results, there’s an almost instinctive drive to zero in on the final destination. We measure ourselves by what we achieve, by the titles we wear, the deals we close, the milestones we hit. And somewhere in that … [Read more...]
The Weight of Less: Redefining Minimalism Beyond Things
Minimalism is a term that’s been flung around a lot lately, often reduced to Instagrammable shots of bare walls and a single chair in a room. But over the years, as I have juggled multiple roles, while navigating diverse personal and professional landscapes, I’ve come to realize that minimalism is … [Read more...]
How Not to Be a Buzz Killington: A Comprehensive Guide to Actually Living Without Killing the Vibe
Written By: Someone Who Gets That Life Can Be Annoying, but Let’s Try to Keep It Together Anyway Buzz Killington /bʌz-kɪl-ɪŋ-tən/noun 1. A person who, either intentionally or unintentionally, drains the energy or enthusiasm from any given moment, conversation, or experience by offering … [Read more...]