There’s something deeply unsettling about people who create problems and then rush to solve them, expecting applause along the way. It’s like the arsonist who torches a house and then eagerly joins the fire brigade, not to right a wrong, but to chase a medal for bravery. This is not just a … [Read more...]
Care is the Core of Leadership
Leadership has been studied, dissected, and theorized for centuries. We’ve built models, frameworks, competencies, and scorecards, trying to distill what makes a good leader. We’ve wrapped leadership in layers of jargon and business speak, wrapped it in power suits and corner offices, wrapped it … [Read more...]
The Weight of Silence and the Discomfort of Seeing
There is a quiet dread that has been settling in, an uncomfortable pulse beneath the noise of our everyday lives. It creeps in while we’re watching the news, when we catch a glimpse of a headline we’d rather not read, when we hear ourselves rehearsing explanations that let us look away. I find … [Read more...]
We Are Not Just Fooled — We Let Ourselves Be Fooled
It’s too easy to point the finger at social media and modern mainstream platforms and leave it at that. Blaming today’s media for the spread of misinformation is a neat, tidy conclusion that absolves us of responsibility. But the uncomfortable truth is that history — our understanding of it, our … [Read more...]
The Burden of Taking Care
Caring for others isn’t just about acts of kindness. It’s about carrying the emotional weight of what you can see and what you feel responsible for. To care is to see beyond the moment. To see the slow consequences, the subtle patterns, the things people will only recognize when they’re looking … [Read more...]
Proximity Isn’t Alignment: Why You Don’t Owe Everyone Your Time
Let’s start with something simple and human. You don’t have to know everyone. You don’t have to network with everyone. You don’t have to say yes to every invitation, every introduction, or every handshake at a conference. Somewhere along the way, “networking” became confused with … [Read more...]
Everyone’s Problem, Everyone’s Dream: The Strange Gravity of America
Almost everyone has an issue with the United States. And almost everyone either lives there, wants to move there, or quietly wonders if they should have. This contradiction doesn’t need correcting — it needs understanding. We criticize what affects us. And the United States affects … [Read more...]
Philanthropy, Fees, and the Fight for Relevance: Why Community Foundations Matter
There’s a quiet tension building in the philanthropic space — and if you’re close enough to it, you can feel it. For decades, community foundations have been steady and trusted stewards of local generosity. But lately, they’re finding themselves eye-to-eye with a new kind of player: banks. Not … [Read more...]
Invisible Threads: The Subtle Habits That Quietly Undermine Strong People
Most people don’t set out to look weak at work. In fact, many of the smartest, most competent, and most well-meaning professionals do everything in their power to be thoughtful, collaborative, and humble. But that’s the catch. It’s often the well-intentioned behaviours — the quiet pauses, the … [Read more...]