There are times in life when the noise outside and the restlessness within begin to mirror each other. The routines still move, the meetings still happen, but something underneath starts to question the point of movement without direction. It’s usually in these moments that I find myself drawn … [Read more...]
The Seduction of Jingoism
Jingoism is neither an act of confidence nor a representation of bravery. It’s a mask worn by fear and dressed up as conviction. It pretends to be love for one’s country or community, but more often, it’s a deep insecurity seeking validation through noise. What’s fascinating is that it used to … [Read more...]
When the Heart Remembers Home
Earlier tonight, I found myself at the Irish Hills Golf and Country Club, surrounded by familiar faces and a shared sense of purpose. It was a fundraiser to support the rebuilding efforts in Punjab after the devastating floods earlier this year. But it was more than an evening of giving. It was … [Read more...]
The Beautiful Rage We Need
We’ve been taught to calm down too much. To stay polite, to stay within the lines, to play nice even when the game is rigged. Somewhere along the way, we confused civility with silence and patience with paralysis. But the truth is, the world doesn’t move forward on politeness alone. It moves … [Read more...]
The Death of Books? Not Even Close
Every few years, the same conversation finds its way back into public consciousness, dressed in new logic but carrying the same old fear - that books are dying. I’ve heard it for years, but lately, the voices seem louder, more certain, almost triumphant. A few weeks ago, someone I hold in the … [Read more...]
The Illusion of Career Planning
I often tell my students that trying to plan your entire career is one of the biggest mistakes smart people make. It feels responsible, even intelligent, to map it all out - the next job, the next city, the next milestone. We’re taught that clarity comes from certainty. But in reality, clarity comes … [Read more...]
The Golf Course of Life
Some conversations stay with you long after they end. A couple of days back, at Irish Hills Golf Course, I found myself in one of those moments. We were being hosted by Jagdeep Bhaji and Lakhwinder Bhaji for a celebration - an evening filled with laughter, stories, and that easy kind of … [Read more...]
The Game Is Won in the Mind Before It Is Won on the Field
No matter how dazzling your game, if you don’t win the match, it doesn’t count for much. Sports, like life and leadership, remind us that brilliance without results can be entertaining, even memorable, but it is not defining. The scoreboard has the final say. The crowd may rise to applaud a … [Read more...]
The Seduction of Habit
Most of what we do in life is not the result of conscious choice. It is not because we have carefully thought it through, weighed the alternatives, or acted with deliberate conviction. It is simply habit. The way we tie our shoes, the way we check our phones, the way we respond in meetings, even … [Read more...]