We love the idea of constructive feedback. We’re told it’s a gift, a sign of care, a necessary ingredient for growth. And it is, all of that and more. But too often, we skip past a truth that sits quietly beneath all the good intentions: criticism - whether constructive, well-meaning, or … [Read more...]
Think Sharper. Move Smarter. Lead Better.
Over the last few weeks, in quiet moments before class or during open conversations with students in my leadership course at Lambton College, HCL4103, here in Ottawa, we’ve kept circling back to one question - what does it really take to thrive out there? Not just to get hired or finish school, but … [Read more...]
Care, Protect, Empower: The Triple Duty of Real Leadership
There are leadership traits that get celebrated - charisma, decisiveness, vision. And then there are leadership duties that go unnoticed, not because they’re unimportant, but because they’re quieter, slower, and far more demanding. Among these are three core responsibilities that rarely get … [Read more...]
Apprentice to Master: Why 10,000 Hours Still Matters
If becoming indispensable in a domain is the long game, and if deep work is the daily practice that fuels it, then what comes next is the path itself - the lived, deliberate journey from beginner to master. And while the world is overflowing with shortcuts, hacks, and shiny new tools, there’s still … [Read more...]
Depth Is a Discipline: How Deep Work Became My Guiding Compass
In a world that rewards urgency and punishes reflection, choosing to go deep feels almost subversive. But if there’s one thing I’ve come to believe - through work, through observation, and through my own trial and error - it’s that mastery is never an accident. It is designed, built, and sustained … [Read more...]
What the Hands Remember
There is no substitute for working with your own two hands. Today, I spent the entire day in my backyard with my sister and mother. We put down new perennials, weeded the flower beds, added manure, split plants, moved others, and tidied up the space while tending to our little vegetable patch. … [Read more...]
The Subtle Art of Guarding Your Energy
Some people light up a room when they walk in. Others light it up when they walk out. It’s not just a clever saying - it’s a daily reality. There are people who don’t just drain your patience, they drain your oxygen. They are energy vampires, and they are very real. They don’t arrive with capes … [Read more...]
The Price of Admission to Leadership
Leadership is often misunderstood as a position you earn, a role you’re granted, or a badge you wear. But none of these things make someone a leader. Leadership is not something you step into. It is something you walk toward, sometimes stumble into, and often grow to deserve. But before you can … [Read more...]
The Point of No Return: Knowing When to Stop Negotiating
It’s a quiet temptation we all face. The urge to push just a little further. To see if there’s more room. To believe we can edge out one more concession, one more advantage, if we just hold our ground for a little longer. It is deeply human to want to test limits. Sometimes it’s driven by … [Read more...]